• Over the years, my life has taken a turn I never quite expected.

    I work alongside colleagues twice my age, some already retired. We exchange ideas as if we’re agemates, while still giving each other the respect we deserve. At the same time, I listen to children as young as six years old confidently tell me what to do, and honestly sometimes, they make surprisingly good points.

    On the other hand, many of my agemates seem locked in a competition to prove who’s winning more at life, who gets ahead first, and who reaches the next milestone before everyone else. Meanwhile, I’m simply trying to live life one day at a time. Some seem to have it all figured out, while others are hanging on by a loose thread. And some…… their life is in between the days.

    Along the way, I’m learning how to love through the difficulties that arise, how to appreciate the people who stay, and how to keep moving when life doesn’t go according to plan.

    Somewhere along the way, age has became just a number. Titles have lost their weight, and every person has became someone worth learning from, from the young to the old. Wisdom is no longer a status quo or years alone; sometimes it comes from a retired colleague, and other times from a child with an honest observation.

    It’s been a strange phase of life, one filled with unexpected lessons but constant growth. But if there’s one thing I’m sure of, it’s this:

    I’m growing through it, and I’m making the most of it. No matter how winding the road becomes, I believe it always ends with me becoming the person I promised myself I would be.

    How has your life been in between the days?

  • This may sound like an unusual answer, but I am not most inspired by a particular person.

    Whenever people are asked who inspires them, they often mention a successful entrepreneur, an athlete, a celebrity, or someone they admire. While I respect many people and what they have achieved, I have never really looked at one individual and considered them my greatest source of inspiration.

    Instead, I find inspiration in the lives I have observed, the lessons I have learned, and the paths I know I never want to walk.

    Some of that inspiration comes from my own experiences. Mistakes have a way of teaching lessons that stay with us for a long time. Certain decisions have cost me time, opportunities, and peace of mind, and those experiences have shaped the way I see life today. They remind me of who I want to become and, just as importantly, who I do not want to become.

    The rest comes from observing others. I have always believed that one of the smartest things a person can do is learn from people who have already travelled roads they are yet to walk. If someone has already made a mistake and learned from it, there is wisdom in paying attention. If someone has overcome a challenge and grown from it, there is something valuable to learn there too.

    Of course, no two lives are exactly the same. We all face different circumstances and different challenges. However, many lessons remain universal. The habits that build people, the choices that destroy them, the sacrifices that strengthen them, and the regrets they carry often have something to teach anyone willing to listen.

    That is why I place so much value on experience. Knowledge is important, but experience gives knowledge a deeper meaning. Someone can understand a situation in theory, but a person who has lived through it understands its reality.

    In many ways, I am inspired by life itself. I am inspired by people’s successes, but I am equally inspired by their failures. Success shows me what is possible, while failure shows me what to avoid. Both are teachers.

    So when people ask who inspires me most, my answer remains the same: not one person, but the experiences, lessons, and realities I encounter through my own journey and through the lives of others.