Hello my reader, I know you are probably used to read most of my articles being based on relationships, dating and ‘breakups’.I think changing the recipe just for today, wouldn’t be bad at all.

It takes a lot of sacrifice, hard work and perseverance to find the perfect something worthwhile to keep a lifetime.The reason as to why am saying this :Times have changed love is no longer what it used to be,people have become sharp and especially when distance is involved between loved ones,playing safe is definitely a priority.And to the people who come from the ‘sensitivity world’ feeling insecure becomes a daily web.

Talking of sensitivity i know some of you have no idea of what it means.Okay ever found yourself mad at someone simply because they didn’t reply your text messages immediately and yet they were online?Leave alone that,Do you get issues with trusting people who taken ages to call back after 4 or 5 missed calls? If your answer is yes to all of the questions above,you are definitely sailing in a boat of ‘sensitivity world’.What you swallow your  insecurities and begin of something like,

“Maybe they he/she is engaged in something important”

“Probably they left their phone at home or they are asleep”

Having such conclusions might help you avoid a lot of things.Try it sometime and your love life will be fun.

Enough of that, I now you are here to know about  perfect partner but to tell you the  truth there’s no such thing as ‘Perfect partner’ but am glad you are here to hear, what i have to tell you.

You need to understand  one important thing whenever you think of loving, dating or even marrying or getting married to someone; “One man’s meat  is another man’s poison”.Yeah! Your baby ‘mamma’  can’t be best to another guy,but she means the world to you.Your dark,tall and handsome(DTH) guy doesn’t mean the whole world to every girl.So do you get my point? Perfect partners don’t exist,they are made.Love your partner and bring out the best in them.

No matter how much you try to work things out, as long as you listen to your sensitivity,the perfect partner you are looking for might never come your way.And if at all they will come your way, you will never be able to notice them.First of all don’t give up-Embrace the daring character but don’t let it kill your confidence.The reason as to why am saying all these is because most people suffer heart-break and lose confidence of loving again.To others it’s no heartbreak,only a few disappointments and you feel like not trying anymore.You will lose a lot.

There are things that  you need to note very key and vital in every bond.As i always say, never get obsessed.Love someone  just as they are.obsessions are limited and with time they fade away.

I wouldn’t like to leave you with the curiosity of how to get a perfect patner.Just a few points to note.If you are a lady,find a guy who will be honest 24/7. A guy who isn’t driven by lust  and will be willing to listen to your opinions when necessary.You’ve heard me say: ‘Matters of the heart  can never be compromised’ Exaclty!. It is therefore very necessary to make a foundation that is based on no lust, a guarantee to a long lasting love story.

To the guys can’t forget you.Please note that there is always something great in a girl who doesn’t admire everything. A girl who is a guarantee of patience and something real.Even though this type of girls are rare, they actually do exist.They admire something specific, something unique in a guy. I mean something off the normal clique and even if you lose everything and remain with your life, They stick by you.Love you till eternity.Let such girls be your desire.

Now do you think you have a perfect partner?

Xoxo.

See you next time.

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