Loves me Loves me not

They say that “time heals every wound”  but  I personally tend to differ with this most commonly used quote.In fact I believe that this  phrase is sometimes used to blindfold people from the reality that; “what is meant to be will always be“.Okay let me bring my opinion into the limelight.Supposed you love someone, too much  and definitely if you’ve ever been in love you understand what   I mean by “loving someone too much”.This  is the kind of  love where  you get to a point of feeling like you can sacrifice your own peace just for your companion to be at peace.You  even  feel like withdrawing  all the good relations you have with anyone else just to be with them.And if at all they disappoint your feelings,you have no clue of how to survive without them.I know that this isn’t fictional.It’s the reality and this things happens and probably or maybe you are a victim.But  to the people who don’t believe in love probably that sounds stupid but it is the reality.Enough of that let’s get back to the main piece of cake.

Many people jump into relationships without considering whether they are truly ready to be in one.They get caught up in the excitement and giddiness of dating and fail to consider whether  the relationship is right for them at that point and time.This can be a recipe for disaster especially if one falls in love out of obsessions.To be much clearer, in this millennium most people fall in love due to physical considerations.Some get obsessed with the so-called ‘cleavages’, six packs, puffy beards, tattoos , height dogmatism, ‘tiny waist butterflies’, voice charming and the many other things that you know.This dangerous if you didn’t know.

I definitely know that we are all never the same nevertheless apologies if this sounds as a mass approach of things.But truth be told before any other considerations the two hearts have to click into the same password.And if you ask me why?’ I’d tell you  some people have suffered most  heart-break due to this obsessions.Another reason why people get into  so many relationships without settling  in one is the habit of refusing to get over their past.Unresolved issues will always pile up and unless you let go the things of yesterday,you’ll always be stuck and unable to get into better things.

With all that,do you now understand there’s nothing like ‘Time heals every wound’.There’s never a wound to be healed.The problem is always  ‘YOU’.Yeah! ‘you’.

if you want to settle for what’s coming tomorrow, let go of  what is holding you back today.Because what is meant to be will always be.Love is strong enough to bring them back.

TO WIN,YOU HAVE TO LOSE.

See you next time.Xoxo