Am learning

Am learning.
Am learning that am not perfect,
I am learning that I can’t always be perfect.
Am learning that people don’t intentionally choose to hurt others.
Maybe their first thoughts is always best of intentions but along the way tables turn.
The future is very unpredictable you know.
And the truth is,
There are people who will never change-
Even if you become what they want you to be.
Be unapologetic for detaching from them.

Am learning,
Am learning that sometimes I end up in bad situations.
And yes,
I need to stop blaming anyone for my mistakes.
I need to begin owning my wrongs.
Because no one wants to take responsibility of their messed up behavior,
We all just have an excuse,
We all have something to blame for.
Even in the situations we get ourselves in – we never lack an excuse.

I am learning that being human is being prone to mistakes.
And so blame no one,
And blame not yourself.
But take responsibility of your wrongs.
Because the truth is,
No one really ends up in bad situations,
It’s the choices we make that determines our situations.

Am learning,
Am learning about love,
Genuine love,
One that isn’t out of pity.
One that cares genuinely and not with counting favors.
Am learning while growing,
I am learning that growth comes with responsibility.
That sometimes people don’t get married for love but to prove they can be responsible.
Am learning that your person is your person, and that is understandable.
That sometimes we don’t choose love,
But it chooses us.
Yours Truly.
🤍🪶