☎Call You Back In a Few📞💔

Hello there my reader, it’s been a while I haven’t had anything on this website but then finally I decided not to be disappointing anymore.

“Lemme call you back in a few”

There’s nothing that has got me detached from people like that statement. It has made me disconnect from people that meant so much to me because somehow, I find it shady and demeaning especially when that person goes for more than 6 hours without getting back, personally I take it as a cue of “I’m detaching!” It’s just a “polite” way of saying “stop bothering me.”  And it becomes more humiliating if this whole cue is an indirect communication from the person you love.

I suppose most relationships, partnerships and even friendships have failed from this same menace. A simple delay in replying the text back on time- and that’s how you find yourself single again. If you seek explanations from the other party, sweet blame games come out in the most commonly used quote ‘You made me a joke, I left as if it was funny.’

Isn’t it disappointing that communication is no longer what we used to know? What happened to the good old days where people wouldn’t lie via phones? What happened to the days of commitments where people got an headache from missed calls? Do you know what I think? People no longer care as much. Everyone gets into a bubble of excitement that lasts few moments and once it’s blown up, communication dies, it only means one thing a dead end.

The  world has never changed from revolution, each day something new is born in a world of technology. Something that is seasonal. But one thing we need to bear in mind, our way of loving, our way of heart to heart communication never undergoes through any revolution.

Let’s not complicate matters of the heart, when you’re a good person, you don’t lose people, they lose you.

Ditto
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