It feels nice to have someone who loves you. Sweet someone who not only loves you but gives you the confidence of ‘Love is a beautiful thing‘. Am talking of a spouse that knows almost every side of your coin. Someone who keeps off all of their issues and decides to work things with you. Someone who keeps your flames lightened from the first day you meet them to eternity.And whenever your flaws want to take over, they know how to handle them.

(BUT). Did you hear what i just said BUT it feels so horrible to have someone who doesn’t even worry about you for once. Someone who makes you feel unwanted, worthless and at some point you begin hating yourself. Whether they see you or not they’d still be fine.People who makes us shed tears because of being so much into them. Am not talking about family relations am talking of love. A four letter word that has greatness in it. It  has taken me  years to believe in it. And even though i believe in it, i don’t just rush into whatever comes my way. That aside.

To the heartbroken out  there- To the guys in relationships with partners who don’t appreciate them, my prayer is that your eyes open soon. And you begin to understand love leveled on a rough ground never smooth-ens in the future. May your eyes open – find a spouse that will appreciate you and if you are a lady be patient wait for a guy- best for you. And even if you find one before time, give him the confidence that he is the one.

I keep on repeating that matters of the heart can’t be complicated. That’s quite simple to mean that there’s no way you’d be in a sucking relationship and still be like,

“I’m persevering to my best”

Hell no!! Don’t persevere more that enough. Are you Jesus???  I know am firm believer of advising people to hold on their loved ones but please and i repeat it, please don’t be a skunk in the whole thing. Find time ask honest questions, analyze the feedback, get into a personal-consultation and if it suits you do what’s best for you. The reality still stands  what is meant to be will do what?…… exactly.

Loving someone ain’t easy.Keeping them needs a lot of commitment. Breaking up with them might cost you a lot.Here’s my free advice, if you love someone, dedicate yourself until you can’t feel it anymore.You might have been heartbroken before but don’t let that intimidate you.Yeah! Be strong. Love your spouse like never before.Embrace their flaws.Keep their secrets and make sure you insure their insecurities.If you guys have an argument, sit down talk like matured people. Relationships ain’t all about kisses and cuddles. In-fact i’d better tell you the truth that some relationships will never see the threshold of marriage so stop acting like you are married to someone or married someone.It’s just a relationship and the stronger you become in it, the more chances you’ll have to survive your marriage.So grow your love as much as you can.Not by experiencing it from a mass of ‘exes’ but by learning how to be patient enough in your lows and tides.

Love is real but only when you find the perfect you in another person. #food_for_thought……

See you next time.

Xoxo.